Dildos
Dildo Essentials: Everything you need to know
Dildo Materials Matters Most: Prioritize Body-Safe Options
The most crucial aspect of choosing a dildo is its material. Always opt for body-safe, non-porous materials like medical-grade silicone, glass (borosilicate), stainless steel, or specifically treated wood. These materials are hygienic, easy to clean, and won't leach harmful chemicals into your body. Avoid porous materials like jelly, TPR, TPE, or cheap rubbery plastics, as they can harbor bacteria, degrade over time, and may contain unsafe additives. If you must use a porous toy, always use a condom over it for safer play.
Dildo Size and Shape: Finding Your Perfect Fit
Dildos come in an incredible range of sizes, from slender and short to long and thick, and a myriad of shapes. Consider your comfort level and what kind of sensation you're seeking. Beginners might start with smaller, less intimidating sizes. Shapes vary widely too: realistic penis shapes, abstract or ergonomic curves designed to hit specific internal spots (like the G-spot or prostate), and textured options with ridges, bumps, or swirls for added sensation. Don't be afraid to experiment with different sizes and shapes to discover what feels most pleasurable to you.
Dildo Lubrication is Non-Negotiable
No matter the dildo material or your experience level, lubrication is absolutely essential for comfortable and pleasurable use. Always use a generous amount of lubricant. For silicone dildos, you must use a water-based lubricant, as oil-based or silicone-based lubricants can degrade silicone toys and make them sticky or gooey. Most other dildo materials are compatible with a wider range of lubricants, but water-based is generally the safest and easiest to clean up.
Dildo Cleaning and Storage: Hygiene is Key
Proper cleaning after every use is vital to prevent bacterial growth and maintain the longevity of your dildo. For most body-safe, non-porous materials (like silicone, glass, or steel), a thorough wash with warm water and a toy-specific cleaner or mild soap (like antibacterial hand soap) is sufficient. Dry it completely before storing. Store dildos separately in breathable bags or compartments to prevent cross-contamination, especially if you have toys made of different materials, as some materials can react poorly with others (e.g., silicone can be damaged by contact with jelly toys).
Dildos vs. Vibrators: Understanding the Difference
While often conflated, dildos and vibrators serve different primary purposes. A traditional dildo is a non-vibrating toy designed for penetration and the sensation of fullness or stretching. Its pleasure comes from movement, pressure, and the physical presence within. A vibrator, on the other hand, contains a motor that produces buzzing or rumbling sensations, primarily for external or internal clitoral/penile stimulation. Many modern dildos now incorporate vibration, offering a hybrid experience of both penetration and buzzing sensation.
Anal Dildo Play Considerations: Safety First
If you're considering using a dildo for anal play, there are specific safety considerations. Always choose a dildo designed for anal use, which typically features a flared base. This flared base is crucial to prevent the toy from being "lost" inside the rectum, as the anal canal has a "suction" effect. Start small, use plenty of lubricant, and go slowly. Listen to your body and never force anything. Always ensure the material is non-porous and easy to clean thoroughly, given the environment.
Explore and Experiment: Your Pleasure Journey
Ultimately, dildos are tools for pleasure and exploration. There's no single "right" way to use them or a perfect dildo for everyone. Embrace experimentation – try different sizes, shapes, textures, and even temperatures (some materials like glass or metal can be warmed or cooled safely). Whether for solo masturbation, partner play, or exploring new sensations, approaching dildo use with an open mind and a focus on safety and personal enjoyment will lead to the most satisfying experiences.
Dildo FAQs
What is the difference between a dildo and a dong?
We often get asked what the difference between a dildo and a dong is, which is understandable! To make it simple, a dildo has a base, whereas a dong does not. Most of the time, dildos and dongs are shaped like a penis and used for internal stimulation.
The key component of a dildo is the ability for you to control how they are used on yourself or your partner, vaginally, anally or orally. AdultShop also stock vibrating dildos and dongs to spice up the way you use your toys. Now you have a handle on the differences, check out our range today!
How do I know I’m choosing the right dildo size?
There’s nothing more disheartening than buying a new sex toy to find out it is nothing like you imagined! This can be even more of an issue when purchasing a toy such as a dildo, which often comes in a range of shapes and sizes. At AdultShop, we have dildos from 6-inches to 12-inches in length, with varying girths, making it easier to choose the right toy.
Whilst you might think the length is more important, we advise you to first understand what diameter and girth would work best for you! The best way to do this is to play around with your fingers and measure the circumference of what feels best to you.
How do I clean a dildo?
t’s best to clean any sex toy before and after use. It may sound like a chore but remember, this is your body. It doesn’t take long to clean a dildo, a quick wash in warm soapy water and a wipe with an alcohol-free toy cleaner and you’re ready to go. Cleaning your toys regularly will not only make them safer for you but will help to extend their life.
Where do I store my dildo?
The obvious answer is somewhere out of sight, and most likely in the bedroom. Storage is important though, as some silicone products can be sensitive and may discolour if stored with other sex toys. It’s best to keep your dildo stored separately or you can purchase a storage bag for extra protection.
What size dildos are available?
Dildos range from 6 to 12 inches. We’re all built differently, so the size you choose is all down to personal preference. Remember, there’s more to a dildo than length, girth plays an important role in delivering pleasure. Generally, the longer the dildo, the thicker it will be. When purchasing your dildo, check the length and girth to make sure both are the right fit.
Are dildos a commonly used sex toy?
In short, yes. While the recent lockdowns in Australia sparked a sex toy sale boom, there were already plenty of households with a dildo tucked away in the top draw. For those who consider themselves sex toy first timers, dildos are a great way to begin.
Another helpful tip: To make sure you and your partner are having the most fun in the bedroom tonight, check out the helpful reviews and ratings, and see what other people think of your new toy!