Clitoral Stimulators Buying Guide
Ladies! Our clitoris is one of our most sensitive erogenous zones, which can lead to some of the most powerful orgasms you have ever experienced! For some women, stimulation of the clitoris is the only way they can actually achieve an orgasm, and so here you will find the perfect mix of toys that are specifically designed to tease and titilate your sweetest spot.
The clit-or-what
So what do a clitoris, an anniversary and a toilet have in common? Men usually miss them, of course! The joke may be old (and most often untrue) but it doesn’t hurt to ask the question!
The easiest way to locate a gal’s clitoris is using the “one down and one up” approach. Simply run a finger down over her pubic bone, and you will feel the peak of a V-shaped groove where her larger (outer) genital lips join in the fun. Place your finger just there… Ooooh… That’s right! Put your finger right there at the top. Your finger is now sitting on her clitoral shaft (which is covered by the clitoral hood). Now slide your finger down about a centimetre or so and you’ll come to the end of the road. You’ve reached your final destination – and boy what a ride! This is the head or “glans” of the clitoris. It should (roughly) be the size and shape of a pea, although it can be significantly larger or smaller. (You might need to run your finger off the end of that ridge and then curl it back to touch the glans if it’s completely covered by the hood.)
The science bit
The clitoris is the only organ in the human species designed specifically and purely for pleasure! It has nothing to do with getting your period OR getting pregnant, and you don’t need it to take a wee either! The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a girl’s juicy bits because it’s composed wholly and solely of erectile tissue. This means it becomes engorged with blood when it’s aroused, much like a penis! And just like his penis, it also increases in size on arousal, sometimes as much as doubling in diameter.
As stimulation continues and orgasm approaches, the clitoris changes position, often disappearing from view altogether as the tissue in the clitoral hood swells and covers it. Your inner vaginal lips swell and change shape too, while your vagina balloons upwards and your uterus shifts to make room for it – that’s the science behind achieving “The Big O”!
How to up the ante
Your clitoris can be stimulated both directly AND indirectly. Generally his penis doesn’t come into “direct” contact with your clit during penetration as it moves in and out, but the thrusting motion he uses might move your inner love lips (the “labia minora”) causing them to chafe against your clit, and creating a clitoral orgasm. The best position for this is woman on top, as your clit rubs against your partner’s pubic bone. You may also achieve indirect stimulation when he’s on top, but only if he positions himself high enough.
Direct contact with the clitoris can be much more fun though, and far easier and quicker to achieve! Directly stimulating your clitoris by touching it with a finger, your tongue, or a vibrator can really up the ante on your stimulation, resulting in a clitoral orgasm that’s felt more intensely than a vaginal one. It’s a happy day when you can experience both a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm together of course, as this leads to wave after wave of simply breathtaking sensation… mmm…
Statistics say that 90% of women reach 95% of their orgasms through clitoral stimulation. And the fastest way to give the clit a direct hit is by adding a bullet vibrator to the equation. Bullet vibes are infamous for helping femmes achieve quick (and mind-blowing) orgasms! Usually 5 to 10 cm long, these bullet-shaped wonders can not only ignite your clit, but your labia, your anus, your nipples, even the head of his penis like a charm.
Of course, other lucky body parts can also benefit from these little hummers too! Designed to provide full vibrating stimulation with pin-point accuracy, these discreet little dynamos give you full control over your level of vibration and stimulation.
But the fun doesn’t stop there. In fact, when you buy a bullet vibe, you’re only limited by your imagination as to how and where you use it! Like all the sex toys we sell, the most fun can be had when you experiment and discover what feels best – whether alone or playing with a partner. And don’t forget that you’re not only limited to using the bullet’s tapered tip – try holding it horizontally for more “widespread” pleasure as well.
Remember too that when you first try masturbating with a vibrator, you might be surprised at how intense, forceful and incredibly long your orgasms are… So sit back… and relax… You’ve entered a whole new world of pleasure... Prepare for the ride of your life!
Give the clit a hit
If you long for strong, direct clitoral stimulation, place your bullet vibrator lengthwise between your labia and over your clit. If you find the direct plastic clit-hit way too intense the first time, try wrapping some fabric around your vibe until you get used to being transported to screamer land, or placing the vibe on the cord (just under the skin) right above your clitoris instead. This can bring some chicks to orgasm in a flash! If you prefer less direct stimulation, try cupping your bullet in the palm of your hand, and then move your hand over your labia and onto your labia, holding the bullet firmly in place or moving it in circles, which ever floats your boat the best!